The dentist makes me cry.
Anybody working with my car makes me cry.
And just recently the new admin in the grad school office made me cry.
But I just realized the common thread with all of them. Money.
They all hit me in the wallet in an unplanned and unwelcomed way.
My smile must be worth a lot after all the work the dentist has done in my mouth. In the past my car always needed something fixed when I finally had a little extra cash, and most recently I became an example of how dropping a class after the deadline will be expensive no matter how good the excuse.
Money has always made me emotional. You would think that would mean I loved money, invested wisely and was frugal. Not true. It only means money makes me cry.
When I was a kid I remember being sensitive to bills at a restaurant. My family would be on a vacation in Florida at a modest restaurant and I would hold back nervous tears because everyone was ordering lobster or ribs. As if the $150 bill was actually going to make or break the vacation budget.
So I have financial goals, but haven't started on the action plan. While I have little excuse, it did get me thinking about why I have not moved on this and came up with an idea. Virtual bankers. My banking brother, this could be your million-dollar bank idea! Hear me out.
Banks hold odd hours, well common hours with all the other working people, making it hard for me get there. If I actually make it there, I wait in lines to talk to people behind a desk, out in the open where I find to be missing information that could be found on my desk or within computer files. Or I could really use the presence of a friend that could help advise me when making important financial decisions.
If I had a waiting chair like my couch, all my information at an arms reach, and was in my familiar and comfortable home, I would talk money more often. I picture evening hours when I have my checkbook out, questions about my savings, and brainstorming about my financial future. I log in to my financial advisor, ask questions and get advice from with my beau upstairs, my family by phone, with a friend on ichat, or research all the options online as we speak. Not just a website that lists options, has a FAQ section, or lets you move money around, but a live person to chat with via instant messaging, audio, or video conferencing.
What do you think? Or does this already exist and I missed the memo?